Many of you may be familiar with Katherine Gaskin’s quote: “Be a pineapple. Stand tall, wear a crown, and be sweet on the inside.” This quote has recently become my personal mantra. While it is inherently empowering and a confidence booster, its deeper resonance with me prompted reflection, which I would like to share.
Life often feels like an unending barrage of challenges, where nothing seems to go right and failures appear at every turn. I have stumbled more times than I care to admit. However, rather than letting past decisions define me, I have chosen to reassess and grow from them. This introspection has been particularly poignant after meeting Madeline Blom, our cover story feature. Her passion and resilience have rekindled my own aspirations and reminded me of my inner drive.
This past year has been marked by numerous trials. I am profoundly grateful to those who have supported me, encouraging my growth and keeping my focus on what truly matters. The scripture, “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love Him” (James 1:12), along with, “God crowns us with His loving kindness and tender mercies” (Psalms 103:4), are particularly comforting. These passages remind me of God’s daily renewed mercy and grace, which help mitigate my bitterness towards myself, the world, and those who have caused me pain.
The part of the quote, “be sweet on the inside,” has been especially challenging for me. Life’s hardships have led me to develop a protective shell, but I realize that this bitterness is not what God desires for me. He wants me to persevere and remain resilient.
Succumbing to bitterness and fear only prevents us from embracing the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23). These virtues are sweet and nourishing to the soul. On challenging days, I encourage you to reflect: Do you see yourself as a pineapple?
